Tag: unmet expectations

Just Because I Don’t Know The Plan, Doesn’t Mean There Isn’t One

I just finished re-reading ‘The Power of TED’ by David Emerald and am pondering where I consistently jump into the Dreaded Drama Triangle. If you’re not familiar with the Drama Triangle, I invite you to get the book and read it. The Triangle consists of 3 positions we play in our self-created dramas: Victim, Persecutor,… Read more »

Relationship Structure

Seems weird, but the fact is: if you want room for flexibility, spontaneity, and creativity in your relationship, the best way is to create structure. Designing a structure for your relationship eliminates confusion and unmet expectations. It adds understanding and clarity. And it gives all kinds of room for unplanned fun. Here are some hints… Read more »